~Important~

  • I will not be anyone's full-time or part-time domme or sub without payment. I really don't have the time, energy, wherewithal, or libido to be doing more than occasional play sessions. If you're looking for something more, be ready to cough up the dough or look somewhere else.
  • No photos or videos will include my face or voice. All photos and videos will be edited to omit personally identifiable information. This is for my safety. If you pressure me about this, I will not trust or like you. I will block you. If you want to hear my voice, that will cost you.
  • I might have vaginismus. I've never been able to get anything thicker than like two or two and a half of my fingers wide inside me, I'm tighter than a nun. I'm working on loosening up with very gradual progress, but don't try to pressure or coerce me into taking more than is comfortable. I won't do it, and we'll both be upset and disappointed.
  • I am currently in a relationship, and I'm not looking for anything more serious than casual online fun. My partner is aware of the kinky/sexual things I get up to online and doesn't mind, but I refuse to betray his trust by entering a romantic relationship with anyone else. Please don't ask to be my romantic partner, because the answer will be an emphatic no.
  • Any photos or videos given freely as part of a dare or task should be considered a gift. Don't expect to get them. If you really, really want them, you'll have to pay for them.
  • I'm shy. I probably won't approach first, so you should initiate if you're interested.
  • I'm not skinny! I'm a plus size goddess, and if that's an issue for you, there's not really much I can do for you about that. C'est la vie.
  • ~Likes~

  • Spanking.
  • Wedgies.
  • Cornertime/time-outs.
  • CNC.
  • ~Neutral~

  • Writing lines.
  • Cornertime/time-outs.
  • Petplay. Just so it's clear, I will only agree to petplay if I'm a feline of some description. I will NOT be a dog, horse/pony, pig, cow, or anything other than a cat. I am a C A T.
  • ~Dislikes (Negotiable)~

  • Washing my mouth out with soap.
  • Bondage. I don't really have anything suitable for this, and I'd most likely be doing it solo without a guaranteed way of getting unbound, so I'd really rather not.
  • Edging/orgasm denial.
  • Diaper stuff. I do enjoy some ageplay, but I don't really enjoy the diaper aspect. If you slide some cash my way, maybe I'll do it.
  • Body writing. I struggle to actually write anything on myself, let alone photograph it.
  • Stuff involving feet. If I agree to this, it'll be for the enjoyment of others, not really for myself.
  • ~Off-limits~

  • Needles/knives/blades/blood.
  • Anything involving friends, family, acquaintences or unconsenting strangers. I refuse to do anything with unconsenting individuals present.
  • Anything in public.
  • Asphyxiation.
  • Degradation about my weight. I can take a little teasing, but I don't enjoy it, and too much of it will just make me resent you.